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Autism and the Future of Education

Autism and the Future of Education

Tovah Petra Kolodinski
When we talk about education, we often focus on outcomes—academic achievement, test scores, and readiness for the next grade level. But for families raising children on the autism spectrum, the questions run much deeper. Beyond grades and assessments, the real challenge is finding a school that meet
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Why Faking a Yes Is Killing Your Intimacy

Why Faking a Yes Is Killing Your Intimacy

Tovah Petra Kolodinski Tovah Petra Coaching
I hear it all the time:“I just say yes, even when my whole body wants to say no. It feels easier to go through the motions than to deal with conflict.
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When Silence Speaks

When Silence Speaks

Tovah Petra Kolodinski Tovah Petra Coaching
This past weekend, I stepped into something new... I was invited as a lead speaker at an event on Sex, Intimacy, and Neurodiversity. I had prepared, r
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Education’s Missing Piece: The Nervous System

Tovah Petra Kolodinski The Spectrum School, Tovah Petra Coaching
For decades, our schools have focused almost entirely on the mind. We measure intelligence, assign grades, and reward academic achievement, often over
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The Raw Truth About Long-Term Love

The Raw Truth About Long-Term Love

Tovah Petra Kolodinski Tovah Petra Coaching
We’ve been through hell and back.As young parents.As partners.As two people who had no idea what we were really saying “yes” to all those years ago.Wh
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To Be Held & To Be Free

To Be Held & To Be Free

Tovah Petra Kolodinski Tovah Petra Coaching
At the core of every human nervous system are two essential longings:To be held.And to be free.These are not just abstract desires — they’re deeply fe
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Building Capacity In Relationship Is Sexy

Building Capacity In Relationship Is Sexy

Tovah Petra Kolodinski Tovah Petra Coaching
In relationship, capacity is everything. Without it, even the deepest love can get lost in misunderstanding, disconnection, or unmet needs.Capacity is
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