Neurodivergent Support

Whole Family,

Whole Child:

Coaching Rooted

In Connection

Tovah Petra’s coaching offers a radically compassionate space to slow down, feel deeply, and experience life through your own unique rhythm.

Specializing in working with neurodivergent individuals and families, Tovah brings a trauma-informed, body-based, and Somatica-rooted approach to help you create relationships that feel attuned, emotionally safe, and truly authentic. Whether you're navigating intimacy, communication, parenting, or self-regulation, this is a space where your neurodivergence isn’t something to fix—but a part of your wholeness to be honored.

Whole Family, Whole Child: Coaching Rooted in Connection

Tovah Petra’s coaching offers a radically compassionate space to slow down, feel deeply, and experience life through your own unique rhythm.

In Tovah’s presence, nothing about you is too much, too quiet, or too sensitive. She honors your unique wiring—where emotions are welcome, boundaries are respected, and connection happens at your pace. Stimming, shutdowns, sensory overwhelm, and communication differences aren't problems—they’re signals that deserve care and understanding.

With gentleness and respect,

Tovah supports you in learning how to:

Tune into your feelings and body
Express your needs with clarity
Feel safe being fully yourself
Build trust and connection without pretending or masking.

Stimming, shutdowns, sensory overwhelm, and communication differences aren't problems—they’re signals that deserve care and understanding.

With gentleness and respect, Tovah supports you in learning how to:

Tune into your feelings and body
Express your needs with clarity
Feel safe being fully yourself
Build trust and connection without pretending or masking

As a Trauma-Informed, Somatica-Trained Intimacy and Relationship Coach, I support Neurodivergent individuals and families in experiencing connection and pleasure through the body—without pressure, shame, or the need to mask.

When it comes to building relationship skills—whether emotional, sensory, or intimate—there’s no better way than to practice with someone who is attuned to your nervous system. I offer a safe, caring, and deeply patient environment where you can explore connection at your own pace, in your own way, and on your terms.

Together, we’ll build the practical tools and embodied confidence you need to feel more connected, more self-trusting, and more fully yourself—in relationships, in family dynamics, and in your own skin.

What Is the Somatica Method?

The Somatica® Method is an experiential, body-based approach to intimacy and relationship coaching that blends emotional awareness with nervous system attunement and pleasure-based healing. Unlike traditional therapy that lives in the mind, Somatica invites your full self—body, emotions, desires, boundaries, and relational patterns—into the conversation. For neurodivergent individuals, this means honoring your lived sensory, emotional, and cognitive experiences while learning new ways to self-regulate, co-regulate, and express yourself in relationships. It’s about coming home to your body and learning to communicate from your truth.

Who Is This For?

This work is designed for:

Neurodivergent individuals navigating intimacy, dating, friendship, communication, or sensory overwhelm
Partners of neurodivergent individuals seeking to build empathy, communication tools, and emotional fluency
Parents of neurodivergent kids who want support in co-regulation, self-care, and navigating relational triggers
Couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent learning how to connect through their differences rather than despite them
Teens and young adults who need a safe space to explore identity, relationships, and emotional expression

Welcome to Your Relationship Lab

We’ll co-create a space of curiosity, safety, and experimentation—where your nervous system is honored, your lived experience is respected, and nothing about you is “too much.”

Expect:

Sensory-friendly coaching environments
Nonlinear pacing and spaciousness for processing
Support around meltdowns, shutdowns, and overstimulation
Guidance in scripting, boundary-setting, and social navigation
Shame reduction around sexuality, identity, and "not fitting the mold"

Welcome to Your Relationship Lab

We’ll co-create a space of curiosity, safety, and experimentation—where your nervous system is honored, your lived experience is respected, and nothing about you is “too much.”

Expect:

Sensory-friendly coaching environments
Nonlinear pacing and spaciousness for processing
Support around meltdowns, shutdowns, and overstimulation
Guidance in scripting, boundary-setting, and social navigation
Shame reduction around sexuality, identity, and "not fitting the mold"

Relational Learning Through Felt Experience

For Children, Teens, and Families

A Supportive Space for Neurodivergent Children, Teens, and Their Families
In our sessions, we create a compassionate, sensory-aware space where children, teens, and families can explore connection, emotions, and communication. Whether you're a parent navigating meltdowns or a child learning to process big feelings, this space honors your unique rhythm, needs, and way of being.

This is a space where:

Stimming is welcome
Emotional expression is celebrated
Pacing is honored
No one is "too much"

Family and Child-Centered Support
Our work often begins with co-regulation—learning how to stay emotionally connected and grounded together. Through real-time, body-based practice, we support the nervous system and deepen family connection.

With children and caregivers, we explore:

Co-regulation and nervous system awareness
Emotional literacy and communication tools
Safe, fun rituals of connection
Repairing relational ruptures with empathy
Meeting sensory and emotional needs
Supporting parents with overwhelm or triggers

You’ll gain practical tools to build trust, resilience, and stronger relationships.

Support for Teens and Young Adults
Teens and young adults are often exploring identity, independence, and relationships while navigating their neurodivergence. Our work centers autonomy, consent, and emotional safety as we explore:

Communication and self-awareness
Healthy boundaries and regulation
Authentic connection without masking
Understanding their unique processing style

Sessions are paced flexibly and led with respect for each individual’s experience.

For Adults

Coaching for Intimacy, Sensuality, and Connection
For neurodivergent adults—whether single or partnered—our work can include intimacy, emotional connection, and reclaiming parts of yourself that may have been shamed or misunderstood.

Using the Somatica Method, we explore:

Emotional intimacy and secure attachment
Sexual expression without shame
Boundaries, consent, and erotic communication
Healing after trauma or rejection
Discovering your unique erotic blueprint
Creating relationship models that truly fit you

Sessions include real-time relational practice to help you feel safe, expressed, and connected.

A Trauma-Informed, Sensory-Aware Approach

No matter your age, you’ll be met with care and deep respect for your neurodivergence. This work honors your lived experience, including sensory needs and emotional rhythms.

You’ll learn to:

Trust your nervous system
Communicate with clarity and confidence
Build connection without masking
Create fulfilling relationships on your terms

Growth Through Relationship

Our relationship becomes a space to safely practice new ways of connecting. This work is experiential, not just conceptual.

We practice:

Consent and boundaries
Emotional safety and repair
Pleasure, connection, and attunement

You don't have to change who you are. You get to become more of yourself --in your family, your relationships, and your body.

For Children, Teens,

and Families