Tovah Petra is a trauma-informed coach 
specializing in relationships, intimacy, and neurodivergent support. 

With a background in somatic healing and years of hands-on experience with neurodivergent children and families, she guides clients through embodied practices and meaningful dialogue to cultivate emotional safety, deeper connection, and lasting transformation. Whether you're navigating intimacy, parenting, or personal regulation, Tovah offers a grounded, compassionate space to meet yourself and your relationships with more presence and truth.





Tovah guides individuals and couples globally on their journey towards rich, meaningful relationships and pleasure-filled, deeply connected intimacy. Tovah’s own experiences with challenging and trauma life events have shaped her empathetic and non-judgmental approach, as she understands that unprocessed memories, energies and emotions get trapped into our bodies. She wholeheartedly believes in the healing power of being seen, heard, and accepted unconditionally.





Tovah believes the parts of ourselves we  fear the most can hold the greatest power and potential. With empathy and attunement, she  guides you through the territory of shame, celebrating and embracing suppressed aspects of yourself.  She will help you create a vision for your life beyond the trauma of your past, and to create and achieve tangible goals to help you move towards this vision you have for your intimate self, your professional ventures, and your relationships. 
Tovah will support you in tapping into your own inner power to unfold, accept, and integrate all parts of yourself—so you can live as the most authentic and erotically expressed version of you.

To further embrace your truest self, she will equip you with the tools of intimacy for genuine connection, increased joy, and heightened pleasure in your relationships with yourself and others.

Training

Tovah is a trained Somatica® Method Sex & Relationship Coach (Somatica® Institute, San Francisco) and holds a Masters degree in Human Development with an emphasis on Social Change.  Her knowledge of Human Development combined with her experience to hold sacred space influences her unique and holistic take on the Somatica® Method. 

Tovah is especially passionate about working with adult attachment, neurodivergent individuals, relational trauma, shame, and self-worth. She supports individuals and couples in creating deeply fulfilling relationships that nourish every area of life. With a blend of courage, compassion, and embodied guidance, Tovah helps her clients embrace their authentic selves, cultivate self-love, and step into more empowered, connected, and life-giving relationships.

In order to have successful relationships, it is essential that you  have the interpersonal skills around intimacy and touch to create lasting connections in your life. 






Tovah Petra uses a “Relationship Lab” approach rooted in the Somatica® Method to support real-time exploration of emotions, intimacy, and connection. Somatic coaching focuses on body awareness and lived experience as pathways to deeper freedom and choice. 

Sessions may include guided experiments involving touch, emotion, or relational dynamics—with your full consent. You can stop or change any experience at any time, for any reason, and your boundaries will be honored without question. While the focus is on intimacy and relationships, other areas of your life—such as work, family, or past experiences—may also be explored to support your growth.



Somatic sexology can work especially well when physical touch is a large roadblock to sexual well-being:
  • Understanding and resolving childhood trauma
  • Understanding your triggers and helping to disarm them so you can respond rather than react out of pattern.
  • Understanding your attachment styles &  patterns and move towards secure attachment
  • Meeting and dating
  • Embodiment of desire
  • Libido discrepancy / Dwindling desire in couples
  • Navigating boundaries and consent
  • ED, PE, DE, and other related issues
  • Low desire
  • Eating disorders 
  • Any aspects of sexuality that is associated with shame
  • Neurodivergence









Transform Your Life Today!

Tovah Petra's coaching, deeply informed by her Somatica training, offers a transformational experience that integrates emotional, psychological, and practical elements for a truly holistic development process.

If you’re at a crossroads, feeling stuck, or simply looking to elevate your life on multiple fronts, Tovah offers a compassionate, skilled, and effective partnership. Embrace the opportunity to transform under Tovah’s guidance and discover the enduring strength, wellness, and success that lie within you. Reach out for a discovery call today, and take the first step towards your personal growth journey!